Sims 3: How to Ask to Move In

In The Sims 3, inviting another Sim to move into your household is a straightforward process, provided certain conditions are met. Whether you’re looking to expand your household for gameplay variety or deepen a relationship, here’s how to successfully ask a Sim to move in.​

1. Build a Strong Relationship

Before the “Ask to Move In” option becomes available, your Sim must establish a solid relationship with the target Sim. This can be achieved through:​

  • Friendly Interactions: Engage in conversations, tell stories, and perform other friendly actions.
  • Romantic Interactions: If pursuing a romantic relationship, actions like flirting or complimenting can help.​

Monitor the relationship status; once it reaches “Friend” or higher, you’re on the right track.​

2. Initiate the Move-In Conversation in The Sims 3

With a strong relationship established:​

  • Engage in Friendly Interactions: Continue interacting until the conversation status reads “Sociable” or better.
  • Access the “Ask to Move In” Option: Under the “Friendly” interaction menu, the “Ask to Move In” option should now appear.​

Selecting this will prompt a confirmation dialog, allowing you to manage household members and funds.​

3. Manage Household Details

Upon initiating the move-in:​

  • Select Household Members: Choose which Sims (and pets, if applicable) will move.
  • Adjust Funds: Decide how household funds will be divided or combined.​

This flexibility ensures you can customize the household to your preferences.​

4. Troubleshooting Tips

  • Option Not Appearing: Ensure the relationship level is sufficient and that the target Sim isn’t already part of another active household.
  • Using Cheats: If needed, enable cheats by pressing Ctrl + Shift + C, typing testingcheatsenabled true, then Shift + Click on the target Sim and select “Add to Active Household.”​

This method can bypass certain restrictions but should be used cautiously.​

By following these steps, you can seamlessly invite Sims to join your household, enhancing your gameplay experience in The Sims 3.