Sims 3: How to Ask to Be Girlfriend & Boyfriend

Want to make your Sims official? Whether your Sim is dating their high school crush or found love at university, asking another Sim to be your girlfriend or boyfriend is a big moment in The Sims 3. Here’s exactly how to get that romantic relationship status upgrade.

Build a Romantic Relationship in The Sims 3 First

1. Start with Friendly and Flirty Interactions
   Begin by talking to the Sim you want to date. Mix friendly and romantic socials like “Flirt,” “Compliment Appearance,” or “Hold Hands” to gradually increase your relationship bar.
2. Progress to Romantic Interest
   Once your Sims share enough romantic interactions, you’ll see the relationship label change to “Romantic Interest.” That’s your cue that they’re ready to take things further.
3. Increase the Romantic Relationship Bar
   Keep stacking romantic interactions until your Sims’ relationship is strong enough for commitment. You’ll know they’re close when interactions like “Make Out” or “Stay Over” become available.

How to Ask to Be Girlfriend or Boyfriend

1. Keep the Mood Right
   Make sure your Sim is in a good mood and the other Sim is reacting positively to your romantic advances in The Sims 3. Negative reactions can lock out the option temporarily.
2. Look for the “Propose Going Steady” Option
   Once the romantic relationship bar is high enough and the timing is right, the interaction “Propose Going Steady” will become available under the Romantic menu.
3. Accept the Proposal
   If the other Sim says yes, congrats! They’ll now show up as your Sim’s girlfriend or boyfriend in the relationship panel.

Tips for Relationship Success

• Avoid Jealousy: Dating multiple Sims at once can lead to drama and ruined relationships.
• Use Moodlets to Your Advantage: Give your Sim a nice meal or hot shower to boost moodlets before making a move.
• Watch the Timing: Avoid proposing while the other Sim is in a bad mood, tired, or hungry.

Now that you’ve made it official, you can start working toward more serious milestones like moving in together, getting engaged, or even starting a family in The Sims 3!