Sims 3: How to Throw & Cancel a Party

Throwing a party in The Sims 3 is a great way to boost your Sim’s social life, complete opportunities, and just have some fun. Whether you’re planning a wild rager or a cozy birthday bash, here’s how to throw the perfect party—and what to do if you need to cancel it.

How to Throw a Party in The Sims 3

  1. Use Your Sim’s Phone
    Click on your Sim’s phone and select “Throw Party…” or “Throw Birthday Party…” if it’s someone’s special day.
  2. Choose the Type of Sims 3 Party
    You’ll get options like:
    • House Party
    • Birthday Party
    • Juice Kegger (if you have University Life)
    • Wedding Party
    • Gift-Giving Party (if Seasons is installed)
  3. Pick the Location
    Parties can be held at your Sim’s home or at select community lots depending on the party type.
  4. Set the Time and Dress Code
    Choose what time the party starts and select a dress code like Casual, Swimwear, Formal, or Costume.
  5. Invite Guests
    You can invite Sims your household knows. The better the relationship, the more likely they’ll show up.
  6. Prepare for the Event
    Make sure you have:
    • Food and drinks
    • Music and activities (like hot tubs, dance floors, or karaoke)
    • Enough space for guests to mingle

How to Cancel a Party in The Sims 3

  1. Use the Phone Again
    Click on your Sim’s phone and select “Cancel Party.” This option appears once a party is scheduled.
  2. No Penalty for Canceling
    Canceling won’t harm your relationships, but frequent cancellations might annoy some Sims over time in The Sims 3.

Pro Tips for Successful Parties

  • Have Fun Activities: Buffets, stereos, and games can keep Sims entertained and boost party scores.
  • Talk to Your Guests: Interacting with guests helps improve relationships and makes parties more memorable.
  • Watch the Moodlets: A good party will give positive moodlets. A bad one? Not so much.

Looking to Take Parties Even Further?

If you’re diving into themed events, check out our other Sims 3 guides to learn how to host seasonal parties and gift-giving events that take your Sims’ celebrations to the next level.